well, we considered eloping, but jill wants the big, dream wedding, and who am i to say no? if y\'all had seen the look on her face when we pulled up to the first place on saturday morning, y\'all would\'ve caved, too, it was so sweet!!
and steve, yeah, i\'ve been given two ser pieces of advice, yours being the most oft repeated. they way it sunk in to my brain was "you don\'t care = you don\'t love her = her mom was right = goodbye happiness!" the other piece of advice i can\'t disclose in a venue that she may peruse, but it also has to do with preserving my lifelong happiness.... :lol: