Its time to deal with the future, not the past. This stuff is difficult enough for the band. If you like them all as much as you claim to, let it rest. The sooner this stops, the faster everyone heals and gets on with their loves and lives.
Steffmo,
Based on my experiences of hanging around bands that have membership changes ( attrition or death in one case for me) I will assure you no matter what you try to do or say, and maybe IN SPITE of it, this will not die down, now or in the near future. I am saying this because I do care and do love what these guys do.
Personally, I am already "over it", as I have hung around the live music scene for long enough to know playing your 1000th show at Toads place after 7.5 years means you (the organization) are not making huge amounts of bank. Jordan obviously chose to earn some money and work on stability in life rather than be a starving musician.
That said, reference the clamor over Phish\'s 2 hiatus\' so far, that sh@t just doesn\'t stop............................................ and won\'t for quite a while.
Point: The greater the talent/longevity of the group, the more fervent the fans and the more "tied in" to the music they know/remember/made love to/drove thousands of miles to see, etc.
Advice: Don\'t comment on it any more than you have, let the natural FANaticism of fans occur, that\'s what makes it fun to be a fan.
After re reading this I meant to be pragmatic rather than preachy, but it IS a little preachy, sorry.
Kyle