i wanted a small, casual affair. jill didn\'t. however, i am thrilled that she recognized that fact and made me only minimally involved in the process. my jobs were - get band, make sure groomsmen went to their tux fittings, tie bows around some honey jars, show up - preferrably soberish.
that said, people who complain about facebook, when they could just as easily not have/delete facebook, is a peeve of mine...