Originally posted by aJwvof
everyone says oh yeah i would work at mcdonald\'s blah blah blah and you are full of shit. people call themselves open mind and accepting but only when they benefit from it. those that abuse the system should be dealt with, but why should a crack baby suffer? did they smoke crack? did they ask to be born ? NO it is all about circumstance and what you are born into ... some people are born well off some are not.
excellent point, aj.
i\'ve steered clear of this thread to this point, but i was gonna chime in on this, because it got to me.. aj is exactly right about this. a baby cannot help what he or she is born into. sure, you can blame the parents or whoever you want for having a baby in the first place, but once it\'s done, it\'s done. and no child deserves to go uncared for just because their parents were assholes.
my wife is a nurse who works in the newborn intensive care unit at yale. she busts her ass day and night, taking care of sick babies, many of which are what you would call crack babies. where she works, a baby born over 1 pound is considered heavy/lucky, and many (not all) of these babies of these babies are born the way they are because of the behavior of their parents.
so should these babies not be cared for? is it a waste of time for hospitals to take care of crack babies? i sure as hell know that if i were born into abnormal circumstances as a result of stupid parents, i\'d want someone to help me out. these babies/kids need all the help they can get, and it needs to start at a young age. this is the only way for these kids to grow up and not follow in their parents\' footsteps and make crack babies of their own.
\'i don\'t want to do it like my daddy did,
i don\'t want to give it to my baby\'s kid.\'
homophobia: gray, it\'s just not healthy. it\'s no reason to dislike someone. just because you find it disgusting, doesn\'t give you the right to tell other people how to live their lives. public affection is not an excuse either. if you don\'t like it, turn your head. i mean, i hate seeing 2 hot chicks go at it just as much as the next heterosexual male, but i\'m not homophobic. i don\'t like seeing straight couples making out in public either.
in my mind, sexual preference should have
nothing to do with politics or religion... but everyone always wants to make it about both. it\'s
personal. period. unfortunately, our government believes that all men are
not created equal, and gays should be treated differently than heterosexuals.. that i will never understand.
It\'s so hard to face
That in this day and age
Somebody\'s race
Could trigger somebody\'s rage
And somebody\'s preference
Can drive some total stranger
to make somebody, somehow
feel the wrath of their anger
Why were we put here?
What for? we\'re unsure
We sure weren\'t put here to hate
Be racist, be sexist
Be bigots, be sure
We won\'t stand for your hate
Why so cut and dry
A simple concept missed
Give tolerance a try
This confusion still exists
Ignorant mongers, no area\'s gray
Couldn\'t be any wronger in this age and day
Why were we put here?
What for? we\'re unsure
We sure weren\'t put here to hate
Be racist, be sexist
Be bigots, be sure
We won\'t stand for your hate
Now how far have we come?
How come there still are some
Who won\'t let some march
To the beat of a different drum
To face it, it\'s so hard
You must be on your guard
It\'s not okay
And you\'re not free to be a different way
Let\'s try to erase it, it\'s time that we face it
If we don\'t, then who will? shame on us
Let\'s try to erase it, it\'s time that we face it
Let\'s face it, the time is upon us