My balls are still in-tact, thank you. I work almost an hour from my house, I\'ve got a 1-year old, my wife is pregnant with our second child. Do you really think that it would be a smart idea for me to say, "honey, I know that you\'re tired, but can you take care of the baby so that I can go down the shore for a show tonight? I\'ll be home around 3:00, but that should leave me about 3 hours to sleep before getting up to take care of the baby and head off to work." I know my limitations, basically Friday/Saturday within a 30 mile radius of Clifton, NJ. Just being realistic.