hey kate....don\'t sweat it too much, it sucks ass that you can\'t go when they\'re so close, but if you can\'t make it; you can\'t make it. its as simple as that. Your still a valuable fan for the bfast to have and don\'t let anyone tell you any different. You\'ll make the next one....and though it may not be for a while, it doesn\'t mean its your fault....if the band toured more people like you could get a chance to see them more than once a year, or whatever......
long story short... my point is just cause you can\'t make it to the show, don\'t let your enthusiasm for this band drop, we need people like you getting excited about touring to the midwest and elsewhere.....i know you tried hard to get them to the LBC but if you and others keep trying maybe they will do a more expansive midwest/westcoast tour over the winter or spring, don\'t just take the (not so) easy way out and come to new england for a show....make them come to you!
-mike